A Man Called Ove

A Man Called Ove

A Novel

Large Print - 2014
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Meet Ove. He's a curmudgeon; the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him 'the bitter neighbour from hell'. But must Ove be bitter just because he doesn't walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time? Behind the cranky exterior there is a story and a sadness. So when one November morning a chatty young couple with two chatty young daughters move in next door and accidentally flatten Ove's mailbox, it is the lead-in to a comical and heartwarming tale of unkempt cats, unexpected friendship, and the ancient art of backing up a U-Haul. All of which will change one cranky old man and a local residents' association to their very foundations.
Publisher: Waterville, Maine : Thorndike Press, A part of Gale, Cengage Learning, [2014]
Edition: Large Print edition
Copyright Date: ©2013
ISBN: 9781410472922
Branch Call Number: LP BACKMAN
Characteristics: 477 pages (large print) ; 23 cm
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ArapahoeKati Oct 08, 2019

"We always think there's enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then something happens and then we stand there holding on to words like 'if'."

"A Man Called Ove" reminded me of my dad. He always made sure the neighborhood looked nice and was a grumpy codger with a kind heart. His favorite author was Tony Hillerman whom I've just discovered and he's amazing! ArapahoeSusanW

ArapahoeKati Aug 03, 2016

This book is perfect in every way. The character development, the plot, the humor, the sadness...and the audiobook is incredible (it's literally the only audiobook I have ever finished). This is one I'll have to own.

ArapahoeTiegan Dec 28, 2017

Meet Ove. Ove has a very certain idea of how things are done, and he really works to make sure everyone else follows his way. Just you try to drive a car on the residential streets of his Resident's Association. Which his new neighbors do, trying to bring a trailer to move into their new house, a... Read More »

ArapahoeNadia Nov 26, 2016

I absolutely loved this book. It is funny, tender and thoughtful. Great feel good book which makes you laugh and cry.

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Oct 07, 2020

It can be a bit hard to follow the characters and the story Rolla coasters chronologically but it keeps you asking for more. Ove is someone we can all identify with, either personally or in a family member or friend. You'll laugh, say a few "oh my's" and in the end, shed a few tears. A definite must read, and I'm on to my next Backman book.

Sep 22, 2020

You think you’re going to read something ordinary, maybe morose. That idea quickly vanishes once you fall deep underwater into the beautiful ocean that is the experience of living in this story. The characters, the plot devices, the man called Ove: so sweet, so funny, so terribly sad. This is why we read, or why we all would be better people: to create some empathy and understanding toward people who, upon first impression, are not impressive.

There is nothing I can write that is in any way worthy of what this book did to me. It plain knocked my views of grouchy old relatives straight out of my head. My relatives are nothing like Ove, but we all know an Ove. What they are inside, what battles they are fighting, what they do for others, what they don’t say, we just assume the worst and don’t dig in to find something greater than we could ever assume.

If anything makes you take the time to look deeper into someone’s story for which you previously ignored, this is it. We all need to be a little more Sonja.

Sep 05, 2020

This book rocketed author Fredrik Backman to world-wide fame, and deservedly so. It's the story of a man whose wife has recently passed away, and finds re-connection thanks to a group of zany, concerned neighbors. Backman employs a fable-like simplicity in style, and the book is filled with insight into belonging, family, friends, as well as humor and warmth. This book was the basis of a wonderful movie of the same name, and Backman has a new one out, Anxious People, which I'm looking forward to reading soon. Ove is highly recommended!

Aug 30, 2020

Oh I laughed and I cried. This is a marvelous read.

Jul 23, 2020

I really enjoyed this book. It made me laugh and it made me cry. The characters and situations were developed enough to understand them, but not in so much detail to make the story drag.
I also watched the movie on Kanopy and enjoyed that too.

Petehere99 Jul 20, 2020

1 of 5 stars2 of 5 stars3 of 5 stars4 of 5 stars[ 5 of 5 stars ]
"Well, in Whoville they say -- that the Grinch's heart grew three sizes that day." Dr. Seuss

There is a lot of the Grinch in Fredrik Backman's 'Ove,' and also some Gru from 'Despicable Me.' In fact, as the the story unfolds, the only living thing that wants anything to do with the 59 year-old Swedish curmudgeon is the neighborhood stray cat. But as the chapters pass, more and more is revealed about Ove. His early days are harsh to be sure, but his path leads to a tender and bittersweet romance with the only love of his life. But his days, he feels, are nearly over -- until the new neighbors move in and run over his mailbox. She's Iranian and he's, well, Ove. His greatest compliment to anyone is "You're not entirely without hope." The new neighbor has her work cut out for her, but she's up for it even while several months pregnant. A Man Called Ove was so funny and touching that I had to put it down several times just think about it. So many customers and friends recommended this book to me, and so I'm recommending it to you. As I toured my neighborhood the other day picking up trash and guarding against possible malfeasance, I thought, "My gosh, I'm Ove." You probably know one too.

May 22, 2020

The movie is good too.

May 19, 2020

What a delight!! Read the book then see the film!! Highly recommend!! Kristi & Abby Tabby

Mar 17, 2020

“For the greatest fear of death is always that it will pass us by. And leave us there alone.”

When I started reading A Man Called Ove I was worried I might not like it. After all, I'd already tried to read The Story of Arthur Truluv: A Novel and after about a third of the way through, I gave up. As I read A Man Called Ove I discovered I didn't like this book, either. I LOVED it. I was surprised by how many times the book made me chuckle.

I highly recommend A Man Called Ove!!!

Mar 10, 2020

This book is truly delightful. I listened to it during my daily work commute and ran the gambit of emotions during that time. Sometimes Ove made me mad, other times I was nodding my head in wholehearted agreement over his reactions to people or situations he encountered, it made me laugh endlessly, and at times it even made me cry. I'm looking forward to checking out some of the authors other work to see if they are just as enjoyable as this one was.

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Mar 06, 2020

All people want to live dignified lives; dignity just means something different to different people.

Mar 06, 2020

We always think that there is enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then, something happens and then we stand there holding on to do words like "if".

Jul 21, 2017

Ove has probably known all along what he has to do, but all people at root are time optimists. We always think there’s enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then something happens and then we stand there holding on to words like “if”. - p. 282

Jul 21, 2017

“Men are what they are because of what they do. Not what they say,” said Ove - p. 78

Jul 21, 2017

Her laughter catches him off guard. As if it’s carbonated and someone has poured it too fast and it’s bubbling over in all directions. It doesn’t fit at all with the gray cement and right-angled garden paving stones. It’s an untidy, mischievous laugh that refuses to go along with rules and prescriptions. - p. 60

Apr 14, 2017

“Death is a strange thing. People live their whole lives as if it does not exist, and yet it's often one of the great motivations for the living. Some of us, in time, become so conscious of it that we live harder, more obstinately, with more fury. Some need its constant presence to even be aware of its antithesis. Others become so preoccupied with it that they go into the waiting room long before it has announced its arrival. We fear it, yet most of us fear more than anything that it may take someone other than ourselves. For the greatest fear of death is always that it will pass us by. And leave us there alone.”

Apr 14, 2017

“To love someone is like moving into a house," Sonja used to say. "At first you fall in love in everything new, you wonder every morning that this is one's own, as if they are afraid that someone will suddenly come tumbling through the door and say that there has been a serious mistake and that it simply was not meant to would live so fine. But as the years go by, the facade worn, the wood cracks here and there, and you start to love this house not so much for all the ways it is perfect in that for all the ways it is not. You become familiar with all its nooks and crannies. How to avoid that the key gets stuck in the lock if it is cold outside. Which floorboards have some give when you step on them, and exactly how to open the doors for them not to creak. That's it, all the little secrets that make it your home. "

Apr 14, 2017

“People said Ove saw the world in black and white. But she was color. All the color he had.”

Sep 25, 2016

“. . . a laptop?” Ove shakes his head wildly and leans menacingly over the counter. “No, I don’t want a ‘laptop.’ I want a computer.”

Every morning for the almost four decades they had lived in this house, Ove had put on the coffee percolator, using exactly the same amount of coffee as on any other morning, and then drank a cup with his wife. One measure for each cup, and one extra for the pot—no more, no less.

Ove stomped forward. The cat stood up. Ove stopped. They stood there measuring up to each other for a few moments, like two potential troublemakers in a small-town bar. Ove considered throwing one of his clogs at it. The cat looked as if it regretted not bringing its own clogs to lob back.

Also drives an Audi, Ove has noticed. He might have known. Self-employed people and other idiots all drive Audis.

Suddenly he’s a bloody “generation.” Because nowadays people are all thirty-one and wear too-tight trousers and no longer drink normal coffee.

Sep 25, 2016

All the things Ove’s wife has bought are “lovely” or “homey.” Everything Ove buys is useful. Stuff with a function.

The little foreign woman steps towards him and only then does Ove notice that she’s either very pregnant or suffering from what Ove would categorize as selective obesity.

“Holy Christ. A lower-arm amputee with cataracts could have backed this trailer more accurately than you,”

Ove doubts whether someone who can’t park a car properly should even be allowed to vote.

“Men are what they are because of what they do. Not what they say,” said Ove.

Nowadays people changed their stuff so often that any expertise in how to make things last was becoming superfluous. Quality: no one cared about that anymore.

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May 30, 2019

Grumpy old man who has lost his wife decides he wants to join her. But everytime he tries to, he gets sucked into helping his new neighbors, and all sorts of other random people....people who are too incompetent and unable to DIY things like he and folks from old time can/could. This book has a heartwarming story. People you meet and avoid because you think you have nothing in common and can never connect to...you'd be surprised that sometimes you can.

ArapahoeSusanW Oct 20, 2016

Grumpy old man with a heart of gold, I loved this novel and found it quite heartwarming.

Jun 02, 2016

A book about seeing past first impressions to create unlikely friendships. This book is about a grumpy old man who collects an unusual group of friends and reflects on a life well lived.


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